Sunday 15 February 2015

Canada Multiculturalism Immigration

I was born and have lived my whole life in Canada; all of it in Ontario; and my childhood and youth in Northern Ontario. For those of you from the South, that is the big white portion of the province on the other side of your Ontario Road Map. I am a very proud Canadian and believe in my Country do or die. This does not mean my government, Mr Harper. 
I am grateful for the basic freedoms and civil rights we enjoy here. I know Canada is not perfect. We have many of the social problems from which many other countries suffer; poverty, hunger and many of our Aboriginal peoples are lacking basic necessities. These are not problems that our easily solved and by no means will I attempt to solve them here. 
I am not only a proud and grateful Canadian, I see myself as a privileged Canadian and human being. Because of the sense of multiculturalism that Canada has fostered, I do not see what can be called a "typical" Canadian. We are all Canadians but of different colours, creeds and ethnic backgrounds. What a marvellous opportunity, one that many other countries in the world cannot enjoy. 
There are rural parts of our country that perhaps do not represent the diversity that is Canada. Nonetheless, if one travels to one of our larger cities, the plethora of cultures is endless. I can speak personally only of Toronto and Montreal since those are the metropolises I have visited, but I suspect that any of the major cities would be similar.
I can walk through Toronto and eat a different type of food everyday; Chinese, Japanese, Caribbean, French, Russian, Indian and fusions of any of these and more.  There is an Italian Festival, Dragon Boat Races, Bonhomme Carnivale, and a St. Patrick Day Parade. Where else could one learn about just about any culture in the World and never have leave home. Many people complain about immigrants, and I suppose there are "good" immigrants and "bad" immigrants, just as there are good and bad natural Canadians. But let's all remember that unless you belong to the First Nations, we are all immigrants or their descendants. Instead of disparaging our differences, why not celebrate them. 
I am overjoyed to be at a hockey tournament and see the various names on the back of the jerseys. There is a Gallagher, a Smith, and a Charbonneau. But also a Ma, a Fardi, a Rodriguez and a Caputo. 
We are blessed to live here. It benefits all of Canada to celebrate the varied cultures that make up the Best Country in the World. 

Thursday 5 February 2015

Success

Success is elusive. This not news to anyone. But perhaps it depends on your definition of success. 
We have all made plans for our lives, perhaps women more than men. Career, marriage, kids and a home. I did have a plan and expected to be somewhere else by age 45. But as my Dad has told me; it is okay to plan, but don't plan the outcome. In my fairy tale, I did not have multiple sclerosis, nor was I single mom of two teenagers and struggling to get a writing career started. 
No matter how close or how far I am to my dream life, it is MY LIFE and I am living it to the best of my ability. And this is far from perfect.
I have yelled at my children. I have said things to them that I shouldn't have. 
I have overextended my self and aggravated my MS. I don't sleep enough, I do my best, but I am sure I could eat better and I am sure I do not exercise enough. 
My "office" is a mess. I have little self discipline and an abundance of self doubt. 
But none of that is really important. 
Every day I tell my children how much I love them and how much I believe in them and their dreams. 
Every day, I eat something that grew out of the ground, not a factory. I have accepted that a nap is NOT a four letter word. 
And ever day I write something or edit something or read something to make me a better writer. 
My life is not perfect and neither am I. I am ok with that. Because I know I am doing my best. 
It may not be the glamour and drama of The Housewives from wherever. It is definitely not with the grace and wisdom of the Dalai Lama. And thankfully not with the whatever of Martha Stewart.
I am not looking for perfection anymore, but progress towards doing things better than yesterday. 
That is my definition of success. 

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